Peaceful Holidays: Shifting out of Flight, Fight, or Freeze
The holiday season often arrives with a flurry of activities, celebrations, and gatherings. It’s a time of joy and connection, yet for many, it can also be a period of heightened stress and inner turmoil. As we reflect on the year behind us—a year marked by immense change, grief, and unpredictability—it's essential to acknowledge the challenges and embrace the lessons they've brought forth.
In my journey, navigating through the ebbs and flows of 2023, I've found solace in a practice of trust and surrender. As someone recovering from the grip of perfectionism and worry, rekindling the connection with my higher Self has been transformative. Returning to this practice, rather than succumbing to the limitations and fears of my smaller self, has guided me through moments of fear and lack, leading me back to a place of peace and clarity
One crucial revelation I've encountered is the response our bodies exhibit in the face of triggers or perceived threats—a physiological reaction known as fight, flight, or freeze. While this mechanism aims to safeguard us, it inadvertently locks us into a cycle of stress, impeding our ability to respond with compassion and empathy. Instead, we react impulsively from a place of hurt or fear.
I often employ a powerful tool, deep inquiry, in both personal and professional settings. It's a method that allows individuals to connect with their inner guidance or spiritual GPS, aiding them in transcending the cycle of fight, flight, or freeze. This practice has been instrumental in fostering moments of calm, reflection, and healing.
As we enter the bustling and often overwhelming month of December, it's crucial to carve out time for stillness. Shifting into a state of rest and calm—the parasympathetic state—paves the way for introspection, nurturing trust and peace within ourselves. It's an opportunity to cultivate a healthier body, mind, and soul, not just for the holiday season but for the journey ahead.
On that note, here are some poignant questions I often pose to individuals entrenched in their personal 'rabbit hole.' These queries, asked during sessions aimed at restoration and healing, aim to guide individuals toward a state of rest, calm, and deeper understanding:
What limiting beliefs and thoughts are holding you back, and how can you release them?
Which relationships or habits no longer serve your growth? Are you ready to let go of them, and if not, why?
When faced with a trigger or obstacle, what is it prompting you to examine within yourself for healing? Take time to sit with these emotions or stories, tracing them back to their origins. What was left unattended or lacked nurturing during that initial experience that now needs care?
If you were held with attention, acceptance, and affection, what new thoughts or perspectives might emerge? How might your life change? Can you extend these qualities of care to yourself?
What aspirations do you hold for your health, relationships, work, spirituality, and leisure?
Remember, stepping beyond our comfort zones can be uncomfortable, but the discomfort is fleeting compared to the stagnation of remaining stuck. We're destined for the greatness the Universe holds for us. Let your higher Self be your guide as we journey forward.
As I continue to venture beyond my own comfort zone, I'm here to support you. Follow my adventures, insights, and wellness tips on Facebook or Instagram [insert links]. For a deeper understanding of my personal journey and the obstacles I've navigated, explore my recent interview with LA Voyage magazine [link here].
Let’s embark on this path of self-discovery and inner peace together, transcending the chaos and finding serenity amidst the festivities.
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